You'll find love when u'll least expect it, they said.
I never did look for love. Being single worked for me. Thought I'd do horrible in a relationship, even convinced myself I was commitment phobic. I seldom understood this mushy feeling my other committed friends talked about. I had even decided that the only way I'd even find a guy for myself is when my parents push me to get married- the arranged type to be exact.
Apart from all of the above, there was an other side to me. One who like every other girl dreamt of finding the perfect boy. A guy who'd treat her as an equal, who'd make her laugh and who'd love the things that she adored too. As surprising as it may sound, I am a romantic. I had a wishlist of things I looked forward to in a guy. I would be lying if I said I never had crushes. Just that the ones I fancied were either taken or were in the friend zone.
And one fine day, I did find Mr. Perfect who was the manifestation of my wishlist. As awesome as the feeling was, I brushed it off thinking it would never happen. Why would an amazing Guy like him go out with a girl like me? 'it'll never happen, don't keep your hopes up', I thought. We started off as friends with no hints of attraction what so ever.
But the universe had other plans. Little did I know Mr. Perfect started developing feelings for me too and he even confessed at one point of time. I decided to let go off myself and said yes. 4 months later I'm the girl who I'd never thought I'll ever be and I've realized when you find the one, you're bound to adapt. Trust me, it's a good thing!
And now, I've become one of those people who tells other single folks "don't worry, you'll find love when you least expect it!". Coz when you do, it feels amazing.
Nothing you can ever compare to!
